Gemini: May 21 - June 20

How to Attract a Gemini Man

Want to know how to attract a Gemini man? Gemini men have an insatiable desire for new experiences and stimulating conversation. Supply either of these to attract a Gemini man like a moth to a flame.

If you want a Gemini boyfriend, you'll usually find him dancing at a club or telling funny stories at a party.

The Gemini version of the old saying about catching more flies with sugar than with vinegar is that you'll attract more Gemini men with laughter than with tears. If you want a man who will give you a shoulder to cry on, choose someone from another zodiac sign.

Watch your appearance and use your wit

Gemini men can be rather finicky about their own appearance. Since Gemini's symbol is the twins, a Gemini man wants a partner whose level of attraction matches his own. If you have been letting yourself go, take some time to get a decent haircut and some flattering clothes to get this man to look at you as date material.

It also helps if you know how to flirt. A tongue-tied beauty will have less success with him than an average-looking person with a sense of style, great grooming and scintillating wit. Making him laugh will enhance his attraction to you. As Gemini Bob Dylan once said, "You can fake an orgasm, but you can't fake laughter."

Keep it casual

Don't start choosing china patterns after the first date with a Gemini. He knows how to make your evening sparkle, but usually isn't in a hurry to settle down. Show him that you share his playful, casual attitude if you want the relationship to progress.

If he feels as if you are trying to curtail his freedom, he'll make some very charming excuses and then disappear.

While Gemini men can have a deep connection to their partners, most of them express their love through companionship rather than hearts-and-flowers romantic gestures.

Check his maturity gauges

Gauge the maturity level of your Gemini to determine whether your relationship with him has legs.

A younger Gemini man will often see romance as a game. If your Gemini man, no matter what his chronological age, still needs to keep score, enjoy your time with him as a pleasant interlude without seeking permanency.

More mature Geminis, however, seek someone who can be a true partner, the missing twin implied by the symbol of this zodiac sign. Think of the love in the eyes of Prince William at his wedding, or the sadness of Paul McCartney at losing Linda, or of Gene Wilder founding Gilda's Clubs in memory of Gilda Radner.

Expect lots of suprise and change

Gemini men have a tendency to change-ideas, jobs, homes, friends and more. If you crave stability, you may find life with a Gemini man stressful. On the other hand, if you share his emphasis on variety and flexibility, you and your Gemini can have a happy life together.