Sagittarius: Nov. 22 - Dec. 21

How to Attract a Sagittarius Man

Want to know how to attract a Sagittarius man? If you want to attract a man born under the sign of the Archer, shed any vestiges of timidity. Shy people seem like ghosts to the Sagittarius man; -either invisible or strange.

Sag believes in "carpe diem" and can't comprehend why someone would choose to sit in a corner at a party rather than meeting new people and dancing.

Be confident, self-assured, and physically fit

Sagittarius is ruled by Jupiter, the planet named for the God who ruled Mount Olympus. Sag men want partners who won't look out of place among deities. Fabulous looks certainly will gain his attention, but to hold it you'll need self-assurance, daring and intelligence.

Sagittarius likes to feel his mate is a catch, not someone on the discount shelf. Physical fitness is also a pre-requisite for the Sagittarius man's partner because Sag continously seeks action and excitement. If you go to a tropical island together, he will want to go hiking, hang-gliding and kayaking, not just lay on the beach.

Be patient and willing to wait

Sagittarius men like to explore all their options before settling down. They rarely seem to have a definite "type" as their romantic partners may represent different appearances, personalities, backgrounds and age groups.

A Sagittarius man seeks friendship as well as romance. As a result, they will tend to have a string of steady relationships, engagements, co-habitations or even marriages rather than a long chain of one-night stands.

They use these romances to help refine their secret image of a perfect partner. Once they find that person, they will act quickly, even sometimes callously, to initiate a relationship.

Sagittarians often see their romantic desires as a law unto themselves. As Sag Woody Allen said about starting a relationship with his current wife after spending some years as the partner of her adoptive mother, "The heart wants what it wants."

Brad Pitt's love life also exemplifies the classic Sag hunt for the ideal mate.

Don't try to tie him down

Once they find a partner who seems to represent their personal idea of perfection, Sag men jump into the relationship with both feet. They will support their partner's interests, goals and ambitions.

When a Sagittarius man is attracted to you, he can be very romantic, planning special couple evenings or vacations. What they ask in return for this is that the spouse not tries to tie them down.

Sag will still want to time to study, travel, meet new people and even flirt a little bit. A Sagittarius man will not remain attracted to a partner that does not have the self-confidence to realize these activities do not threaten their love.

A Sagittarius man may invite his mate to accompany him on many of his adventures, but expects to be given the latitude to go on adventures alone when the spouse's schedule prevents shared journeys. He is most likely to remain fascinated with a partner who occasionally has their own solo adventures.