Our Scorpio Woman and Aquarius Man compatibility rating is 4. Because the elements are not combining well, being of the same astral quality causes friction and disharmony, rather than commonality of purpose. This is a relationship that requires a lot of effort.
You'll have to focus constantly on what you have in common, because your differences will be pronounced.
Water vs Air - The Water (Scorpio) and Air (Aquarius) elements are at odds with one another because of the lack of agreeable characteristics among the co-rulers of each sign. These elements do not represent similar or synchronous aims and ambitions in this case.
Both are Fixed - Both Scorpio and Aquarius are Fixed Signs, and therefore have set ways of doing things. The elements are in a state of discord; this means the Fixed approach toward individual goals is very different.
Mars & Pluto vs Saturn & Uranus - Scorpio is co-ruled by Mars and Pluto, Aquarius is co-ruled by Saturn and Uranus. These planetary pairs are widely divergent in nature, and have a difficult time with one another in other than necessary relationships, such as among family members or at work.
Chances are good that you and your Aquarian Man have been thrown together by circumstance, rather than having made an effort to become acquainted with one another. The Aquarian love of surprises and spontaneity, which comes from his co-ruler, Uranus, may delight you, as the depth of your insight and imagination may delight him. You may be intrigued by each other and want to know what makes each other tick, but neither of you is about to expose yourself emotionally. You tend to be possessive and aren't into casual relationships; your Aquarius Man does not like romantic commitments, especially conventional ones, and considers everyone he speaks to as a friend. It takes a lot to elevate someone from the "friends" status in his eyes, and you don't do anything half-way. Your convictions are more personal; he tries to be humanitarian and universal in his affections. He's able to bring you out of the emotional doldrums in an exciting and sudden way, but your focus tends to be on permanency, while he's thinking about the present moment.
He values this freedom in the same way you value your integrity. Because you are both Fixed Signs, you may change your interests or activities from time to time, but this aspect of your basic nature will always remain the same. When he doesn't have the room to explore and enjoy life, both professionally and socially, he can become cranky and even arrogant in his desire to get what he wants.
You'll probably enjoy your Aquarian Man's independence of thought, his originality and his innovative attitude, but may have difficulty dealing with his unreliable nature. Aquarians do things on their own time, without feeling the need to give fair warning; you tend to approach life deliberately. You keep your promises, and Aquarius tries to avoid making them, because he knows that things may change later. You'll probably also approve of his idealism, but would prefer he spent more time sharing his enthusiasm and wit with you than with his sometimes unusual friends.
Both of you possess tremendous will-power, and have deep reserves of self-confidence. Despite your differences in character, you can overcome the obstacles that present themselves, and make this a solid relationship. But doing so will take lots of time and work, and both of you have to want it badly.
Final Score: Scorpio Woman Aquarius Man compatibility = 40%.
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