Our Scorpio Woman and Gemini Man compatibility rating is 4. The elements are antagonistic, and the qualities and planets don't support each other. The adaptation necessary to make this relationship work out well requires superhuman effort.
Of course, it is possible, and your specific birthcharts may offer unseen compatibility.
Water vs Air - Scorpio could be characterized by the phrase "still waters run deep" and Gemini could be characterized by the saying "fly like the wind." These elements lack in compatibility; their differences are reinforced by the planets and qualities.
Fixed vs Mutable - The serious and loyal side of your nature comes from Scorpio being a Fixed Sign, the intelligent and changeable nature of Gemini comes from its Mutable quality. Because of the nature of the planets involved, these qualities are difficult to reconcile.
Mars & Pluto vs Mercury - Mars is the ancient ruler of Scorpio, and Pluto is your co-ruler. Both planets are direct and forceful, but Pluto adds an extra dimension of depth to the equation. Mercury, the planet of Gemini, is swift and analytical, and focused on variety. This is a combination that is hard on romance.
Although a Scorpio Woman may feel a tremendous magnetic pull towards a Gemini Man, you have so little in common that a lot of adaptation would be necessary for both of you. You're likely to find him to be full of contradictions; he can be tender at one moment and cruel the next, remarkably intelligent one moment and incredibly superficial the next. His rapidly changing moods can be baffling, and you'll find that his need for freedom and flexibility is constantly arousing your suspicion. You know that you are a deeply passionate and serious person who never does anything in half-measures; you're not the kind of person who believes in casual affairs. He approaches romance in a light and fun way, and although his conversation is fascinating, he's not adverse to using misdirection or even deception to prove a point, or just to entertain. Again, this is a relationship that requires a good deal of adaptation and change on both your parts, but if other horoscopic factors are in harmony, neither of you will find it too difficult.
Don't expect him to make a plan and stick to it. He's likely to be late for dates, or change the venue at the last minute. He will make promises and modify them later. But, at the same time, he's able to give you a kind of new and fresh experience that you'll never forget.
He doesn't like to be tied down to any form of commitment. There are rare Geminis who decide that they are tired of superficiality and want to be part of a couple, but they rarely think in terms of permanence when they think about relationships. You'll need to become used to the idea of a light and fun romance.
You'll have to get used to his ever-changing moods and interests, and his tendency to do everything "on the fly." He is easily distracted, and likes to leave his options open, and his cellphone on. Any infringement on his freedom is a cause for alarm for him; the signs of superficiality and fickleness that he can exhibit set off alarms for you. After some time, he may get used to your serious attitude toward love, but it will take some work on your part to help him understand it.
Final Score: Scorpio Woman Gemini Man compatibility = 40%.
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