Our Scorpio Woman and Sagittarius Man compatibility rating is 4. The elements are inharmonious and the qualities seldom work with one another, in this case, because of the vast difference in nature between the planets Pluto and Jupiter.
In order to make this relationship work, many concessions will have to be made.
Water vs Fire - Water Signs tend to be more self-focused and pessimistic; Fire Signs are more outwardly-focused and optimistic. In this case, they tend to irritate, rather than complement one another.
Fixed vs Mutable - The Fixed signs are usually more self-confident and sure, while the Mutable signs are more concerned with adaptability and change. It's hard to get these two signs on common ground.
Mars & Pluto vs Jupiter - Mars and Pluto are the planetary rulers of Scorpio, Jupiter is the ruler of Sagittarius. These planets are not necessarily antagonistic, but Jupiter magnifies the behaviors of Sagittarius that tend to irritate Scorpio, and Pluto tends to work in an opposite way from Jupiter. They are difficult to reconcile.
Sagittarians, unless they are the rarer scholarly types, are generally loud, showy and unintentionally blunt in their speech. These behaviors are not only offensive to a Scorpio Woman; they tend to hurt her at a deep level. He will use the truth to make his point, even in jest, in such a way that may reveal something you feel is a private matter. Sagittarius Men tend to be rather loud, as well as competitive, and aren't as concerned about their integrity or personal security as the apparently friendly and pleasant Scorpio. Although they can be quite chummy and fun to be around, you are more likely to laugh at them rather than with them. And, of course, if they have gone too far (as they often do) with their jokes, goofs or outright insults, it may be necessary to silence them for a while as you think of a just way to teach them one of your Plutonian lessons. In other words, the two of you are as different as day and night. At the same time, they can be enjoyable, and you always get what you see with Sagittarius; you can trust them.
One thing that makes a strong bond between you is that you will always return a favor in kind, and that you will never allow your integrity to be compromised. A clever Sagittarius Man (and there are plenty of them) will recognize and appreciate this, because they are, essentially, idealists, and will never act purposely to lose someone's friendship.
The typical Sagittarius is so used to acting in his fun but clumsy fashion, with no sense of embarrassment, that they are not likely to be observant enough to recognize that they have hurt you. When they do, they'll apologize immediately. Unless they know right from the beginning that your sense of humor does not include being made fun of, they may continue with their habits until they end up receiving the brunt of your fury. Nevertheless, they are, for the most part, exciting and enjoyable conversationalists, and generally good company.
He sticks to his ideals, and you tend to cling to your convictions. He can be impulsive and outspoken in the extreme, but is almost always a fun person you enjoy being around. He's not one to be tied down, and it's best to give him plenty of rope. Be careful when you do so, because it's likely that he'll hang himself with it.
Final Score: Scorpio Woman Sagittarius Man compatibility = 40%.
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