Scorpio: October 23 - November 21

How to Attract a Scorpio Man

Want to know how to attract a Scorpio man? Pablo Picasso, a Scorpio, once said: "There are only two types of women - goddesses and doormats." Given the all or nothing attitude Scorpios take toward potential partners, start by making sure you don't have the word "welcome" written on your back.

Scorpio men deem themselves extraordinary and they seek to attract partners worthy of them in their eyes. So, what's a girl to do?

Impress him

Your first conversation with Plutonic Scorpio should demonstrate that you are a deity in your own right. Let him see that you share some measure of his discipline, drive and determination.

To attract a Scorpio man, tell him how about training for your first marathon or how you earned your doctorate in physics while working nights as at the city morgue.

A Scorpio man is attracted to people who have transformed themselves through the power of their will and is intrigued by stories which hint at some form of underworld. Just make sure your tale isn't bogus-he can spot phonies and cuts them from his social circle like deadwood.

Also, don't tell him your entire life story right away because Scorpios require some element of mystery to kindle their romantic interest.

Share your passion

Talk with him about subjects which excite your passion. Many Scorpios secretly feel that the rest of the world lives on the surface of life while they go spelunking into the depths. Show him that you have investigated a few deep caves of meaning as well.

It will help if you are as intrigued by some of Scorpio's favorite subjects like science, political power and the occult.

Use dark sarcasm

If you want to leaven your conversation with humor, keep it a bit dark and sarcastic. A Scorpio man is not attracted by goofiness or silliness since it tends to deflate their intensity.

Just make sure you don't apply any of that sarcasm to him and his interests, since a Scorpio man can be very touchy. His own humor tends to be a bit sardonic, so you should either be able to hold you own if you think he chooses the wrong targets for mockery, or have rather thick skin.

Appeal to his ego

To attract a Scorpio man, listen attentively when he speaks. He will remember it as a slight if he tells you something and you later fail to remember.

Scorpios need to feel that they fascinate people. Nothing offends them more than the implication that they might occasionally be boring like ordinary humans.

Show a Scorpio man you are attracted to him and that you perceive his talents by complimenting him. Try to avoid, however, sounding too overcome by his charms. Scorpio men become bored if a romantic partner seems too infatuated with them too quickly.