Our Virgo Woman and Aries Man compatibility rating is 7. The elements are said to be antagonistic, but his Fire can feed your Earth in many ways. His forward, Cardinal nature often gives you plenty of opportunity to use your Mutable adaptability to help him along his way. Mercury works well with Mars ...most of the time.
This can be a very strong relationship that benefits both.
Earth vs Fire - Your Earth Sign practicality can sometimes cause his Fire Sign to become irritated at what he sees as a lack of faith in him, just as his fiery impulsiveness may be seen by you as reckless or inconsiderate. He will, however light your fire of imagination, and you will help him come "down to earth."
Mutable vs Cardinal - You are born in a Mutable Sign, which is flexible and adaptable. He's born under a Cardinal Sign, which gets things going and is direct in its action. He's a natural leader, while you don't mind being along for the ride, as long as you have the opportunity to help him achieve his goals in a more efficient and exact way.
Mercury vs Mars & the Sun - Virgos are the most Mercurial of signs, and because Mercury is the planet of thought and communication, you tend to be detail-oriented. Aries' planet is Mars, which is always rushing forward, and the Sun is exalted in Aries, making him prideful and self concerned. He'll warm your heart with his ambition and innocence, while you handle the details he doesn't have time for; you make a good team.
You have an instinct for finding the flaw in a plan or idea before it becomes a problem; he may consider this as a lack of total devotion to his ideas and plans. This type of conflict rarely enters into romance, because he loves your intelligence and your careful consideration of his feelings and needs. The Aries Man also trusts his Virgo Woman, maybe in the beginning because of his belief that no one could betray him, but he'll quickly come to realize that you don't take love lightly, and that you have both faith in him and the ability to work things out if they do go wrong. He will also appreciate your constant care and skill at making sure every detail, especially when you're together, is to his liking.
A liberal dose of imagination from you can spark an unimaginable blaze in the passions of your man. You have the ability to turn an ordinary experience into an extraordinary one by simply pointing out little things in everyday life that he misses. If he has to be the loudest or the first to cheer while watching a sports event on TV, you don't need to call him on it, just review the statistics with him later, but not during intimacy or "quality time."
Don't use self-criticism as a way to get sympathy from an him. You tend to be harder on yourself than anyone else, while he rarely is. He'll take your advice, but expects you to do the same, and as you get used to "walking your talk", he'll help you learn how unnecessary most of your worries are.
Trust that he'll do the right thing by you, as you do by him. You're both prone to be "all in" when it comes to love; he may just need to be reminded more often than you do.
Final Score: Virgo Woman Aries Man compatibility = 70%.
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