Our Virgo Woman and Gemini Man compatibility rating is 7. The discord between the elemental natures can be made up for with a little work; he needs to be more grounded, and you need to "lighten up" a bit.
Because you have so much else in common, it is possible to add another point to your compatibility rating with some insight and understanding of one another.
Earth vs Air - You're born under an Earth Sign, he is of the Air element. This makes you the more practical and serious of the pair, while he provides the fun and variety to spice up the relationship.
Both are Mutable - The sharing of the Mutable astral quality among your signs shows that you have similar ways of going about things. This helps each of you adapt more quickly to the quirks of the other.
Both are Mercury- Mercury is the planet that gives you your analytical abilities and him his gift of gab. Because you share its influence, there is instant communication. Be careful not to put him on too high a pedestal; you're liable to turn respect and admiration into unrealistic expectations.
This can be a frustrating or fruitful relationship, depending on how you both approach it, Virgo. You'll find each other fascinating, but here's the rub: the Gemini Man has probably made a decision to never grow up, while you've been an adult (or at least considered yourself to be one) since you were a child. You believe that improving your lot in life begins with improving your state of personal well-being, while he believes that happiness and success begins with mutually beneficial connections with others. In a way both of you are right; it's just a matter of realizing your partner's point of view. Even with these differences, you have so much in common that you find it easy to be with one another. Your physical and romantic chemistry is excellent, but although you may put your Gemini on a pedestal in your life, your expectations of him may be a bit unrealistic, or maybe just too serious.
You are far more practical than he is; because of the Earth element being so strong in you. Don't let your practicality cause you to have several of the same item in your wardrobe, or always wear your hair in the same fashion; Gemini men find that boring, and they hate boredom. Take a cue from the Gemini nature and bring more variety into your life and your relationship, and he'll love you for it.
You'll need to learn to take both him and yourself less seriously; sometimes his ideas and conversations can be a little scattered or even misleading, and activate your "worry circuits" unnecessarily. At the same time, he needs to learn to take himself, and you, more seriously in order to stay grounded and be more comfortable with his life. The good news is that you'll rub off on one another over time.
He needs social life and activity; that's where he's in his element and can be at his best. This doesn't mean that he's prone to infidelity; if he's with you, he's made a choice that's very difficult to start with. You need occasional retreats into privacy to collect yourself and organize; he will give them to you as you learn to trust him. He loves you for who you are at your best, and wants the same respect and love in return.
Final Score: Virgo Woman Gemini Man compatibility = 70%.
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